Helping children get through a divorce

On Behalf of | May 13, 2019 | Child Custody

Divorce can be difficult for both Texas children and their parents. However, there are things that parents can do to make life easier in its aftermath. For instance, parents should never say bad things about each other in front of the children. This is because children will eventually figure out if a parent is lying or not, and lying to a child is generally not a good idea regardless of a parent’s relationship status.

A parent should make sure that has a relationship with the other parent that is kept separate from the relationship that the parents have with each other. Furthermore, a child should never be made to feel as if the divorce was his or her fault. Instead, the child should know that relationships end and that both parents love him or her unconditionally.

In many cases, ending a relationship is preferable to exposing a child to a constant source of conflict. Therefore, parents should not feel as if they have to stay in a relationship for the sake of their children. However, they should do whatever they can to ensure stability for their kids while the divorce plays out. For instance, staying in the same school district could help provide a sense of routine in an otherwise unpredictable situation.

The best interests of a child should be the top priority of a parent in a divorce proceeding. Ideally, both parents will be given the opportunity to play a role in a child’s life. If parents are unable to create a parenting plan on their own, a judge will make one for them, and none of the parties might be satisfied with the result. Accordingly, the parents might want to have their respective attorneys take the lead in negotiating one as part of an overall settlement.